Resources

Welcome to our Sexual and Reproductive Health Resources hub, designed to support individuals with disabilities, their families, and the professionals who work with them. Access to accurate, inclusive, and empowering information is essential for promoting healthy relationships, informed decision-making, and overall well-being. This page features a range of resources tailored to meet the diverse needs of people with intellectual and developmental disabilities, their families, parents and guardians, and professionals in the field. Explore each section to find tools, guidance, and support for navigating sexual and reproductive health with confidence and care.

Articles of Interest

By: Shaun Heasley
December 7, 2015

By: Veronica Bayetti Flores
October 1, 2015

The importance of expanding sex-ed to people with developmental disabilities
By: Katherine Marrone
February 18, 2016

Resources for People with Intellectual Disabilities

Advocates for Youth
This advocacy organization provides information and resources for parents, educators, and advocates for encouraging and advancing youth sexual health. The Parents’ Sex Ed Center provides parents with tools to foster communication about issues of sexual health and responsibility with their child. The website has information targeted at individuals with developmental and intellectual disabilities and information on how to tailor family planning services for adolescents. The Sex Education Resource Center has resources for teachers and sexual health policy advocates.


Answer sex ed, honestly
This organization provides education and resources primarily for health care professionals and educators, but also provides links to resources for parents and teens.


Autism in Love
Autism in Love is a film that captures the challenges individuals with autism face when searching for love, companionship, and happiness.


Consumer Affairs
Interested in online dating websites and apps but do not know where to start? Visit ConsumerAffairs Top 10 of the Best Rated Online Dating Websites & Services to learn about different websites and apps dedicated to dating. Learn about each website or app features, the different types of dating apps and sites, and read expert reviews.


Impact
This publication was created by the Institute on Community Integration (UCEDD) & Research and Training Center on Community Living. This issue of Impact highlights sexuality and people with intellectual, developmental, and other disabilities.


National Disability Rights Network
The National Disability Rights Network publication Devaluing People with Disabilities: Medical Procedures that Violate Civil Rights provides a discussion on the importance of individual rights in regards to medical treatment, including reproductive and sexual health, and addresses civil rights related issues surrounding the “Ashley Treatment”.


Scarleteen: Sex ed for the real world
An independent education and support website, providing sexuality, health, and relationship articles, guides, factsheets, external resource lists, and frequent blog posts. The site also hosts a message board for teens and young adults to ask questions of staff and volunteer contributors. Topics include gender, sexual identity, relationships, sex & sexuality, sexual health, pregnancy & parenting, and abuse & assault.

Access Living
The Empowered Fe Fes are an advocacy and peer support group at Access Living in Chicago. The Empowered Fe Fes have created a reproductive health guide for women with disabilities. The guide is targeted towards women with disabilities, health care providers, parents, and community organizations.


Bedsider
A place where you can learn about all forms of birth control. The website covers every form of birth control available and describes the cost, how to use the form of birth control, side effects, and problems associated with each method.


Mayo Clinic
The Mayo Clinic provides information on the basics of birth control and different forms of birth control to match the birth control needs of individuals.


Office on Women’s Health
The Office on Women’s Health is a part of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. The Office on Women’s Health provides answers to common questions on birth control and information on different types of birth control.


Planned Parenthood
Different forms of birth control are provided including information on each forms effectiveness to prevent pregnancy, how the form of birth control works, the benefits and disadvantages, and how to use the form of birth control.


Safer Sex Menu
This menu provides information to individuals on choices of sexual activity and the level of risk associated with each activity. This menu provides information on the level of risk associated with each sexual activity and whether it is no risk, no real risk, low risk, and high risk of the transmission of HIV.

Break the Cycle
This website provides information on teen dating violence and includes information on the warning signs of dating violence, legal protections, dating violence research, and the Teen Power & Control Wheel.


Safe Place
Safe Place is an organization based in Austin, Texas that serves survivors of child abuse and neglect, sexual assault, exploitation, and domestic violence. Safe Place offers disability specific fact sheets and has adapted a power and control wheel for people with disabilities in partner relationships and a respect wheel.

Genderbread
The Genderbread Person provides a visual to help explain the differences between gender identity, gender expression, biological sex, and sexual and romantic attractions.


Sexual Orientation and Gender
This resource provides definitions on biological sex, gender, gender identity, and sexual orientation.


The Asexual Visibility and Education Network
Information, resources, and online community for individuals who do not experience sexual attraction. Fact sheets are available for family and friends.


Queerability
Queerability is an LGBTQ and disability rights organization that provides information on LGBTQ and disability issues.

Family Resources

Advocates for Youth
This advocacy organization provides information and resources for parents, educators, and advocates for encouraging and advancing youth sexual health. The Parents’ Sex Ed Center provides parents with tools to foster communication about issues of sexual health and responsibility with their child. The website has information targeted at individuals with developmental and intellectual disabilities and information on how to tailor family planning services for adolescents. The Sex Education Resource Center has resources for teachers and sexual health policy advocates.


Amaze
The Puberty and Autism Spectrum Disorders Information Sheet provides advice targeted towards parents who have children with an Autism Spectrum Disorder. Information is provided to parents on when to begin preparing to discuss puberty with their son or daughter, using social stories to describe changes their son or daughter will experience during puberty, and suggested topics for social stories.


Answer sex ed, honestly
This organization provides education and resources primarily for health care professionals and educators, but also provides links to resources for parents and teens.


Autism in Love
Autism in Love is a film that captures the challenges individuals with Autism face when searching for love, companionship, and happiness.


Center for Parent Information and Resources
This website provides information on sexuality education for students with disabilities. The website provides resources on sexuality, how disability may affect sexuality, resources for parents on talking with their child about sexuality, and resource for specific disabilities.


Friendships & Dating
Specifically designed for individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities, this program educates older teens and adults about how to create and maintain healthy friendships and romantic relationships.


Future of Sex Education
For administrators, advocates, and interested parents, this website provides the National Sexuality Education Standards (NSES), which is used by some states and school districts to provide age-appropriate sexuality education. The curriculum covers seven content and skill development areas including anatomy and physiology, puberty and adolescent development, identity, pregnancy and reproduction, sexually transmitted diseases and HIV, healthy relationships, and personal safety.


GULP! Talking with your kids about sexuality
GULP is a newsletter created by Planned Parenthood of Northern New England. This edition discusses sexuality and developmental disability and encourages parents to discuss sexuality with their children because all people are sexual beings regardless of disability. GULP addresses common myths surrounding disability and sexuality and provides tips to parents to help guide conversations around sexuality.


Healthy Relationships, Sexuality and Disability: Resource Guide
This resource guide was created by the Massachusetts Department of Public Health and the Massachusetts Department of Developmental Services. Adolescents with disabilities and their families and providers helped to create this guide. Topics included in the guide are: puberty and human development, puberty and human development and Autism Spectrum Disorder, social skills and relationship development, sexual orientation and identity, and sexual health and human rights.


Parent Action for Healthy Kids
Parent Action for Healthy Kids helps to connect parents, communities, and schools to improve the health and well-being of children and youth. Parent Action for Healthy Kids focuses on: Emerging Children’s Health issues, sex education, mental health, school wellness programs, and physical activity and nutrition.


Puberty and Adolescence Resource: A Guide for Parents of Adolescents with Autism Spectrum Disorder
This tool kit was created by Autism Speaks to help link parents to resources related to autism and puberty. The tool kit was created in collaboration with parents who have children with autism and the parents provide advice based on their personal experiences. Topics include: body changes, self-care and hygiene, menstruation, public vs. private, staying safe, and internet safety.


Raising Children
This website provides information to families who have children with Autism. This resource provides families with information on how to talk to their daughters about menstruation and provides strategies on how to discuss this milestone. This website also addresses sexuality and relationships for teenagers with autism spectrum disorder.


RealTalk: Improving Quality of Sexual Healthcare for Patients with Disabilities
The Autism Self Advocacy Network has created a RealTalk Provider Toolkit. This toolkit has information on how providers can be more supportive of the sexuality of individuals with disabilities. RealTalk provides a space for young people with disabilities to discuss sexuality and relationships. RealTalk has also hosted a webinar and slides to this webinar can be found on their website.


Stages Learning Materials
The article Talking about Puberty with Children with Autism encourages parents to be proactive in talking about puberty with their child with Autism. The article provides tips on how to discuss puberty including using language that is simple and direct, being available to talk about their child’s questions, helping to label body parts appropriately, and using visual supports to guide parent child discussion.


Taking care of myself: A hygiene, puberty and personal curriculum for young people with Autism
This book, by Mary Wrobel, provides parents and other support persons strategies on how to create stories to discuss hygiene, body growth and development, menstruation, personal safety, and self-care skills.

Access Living
The Empowered Fe Fes are an advocacy and peer support group at Access Living in Chicago. The Empowered Fe Fes have created a reproductive health guide for women with disabilities. The guide is targeted towards women with disabilities, health care providers, parents, and community organizations.


Bedsider
A place where you can learn about all forms of birth control. The website covers every form of birth control available and describes the cost, how to use the form of birth control, side effects, and problems associated with each method.


Mayo Clinic
The Mayo Clinic provides information on the basics of birth control and different forms of birth control to match the birth control needs of individuals.


Office on Women’s Health
The Office on Women’s Health is a part of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. The Office on Women’s Health provides answers to common questions on birth control and information on different types of birth control.


Planned Parenthood
Different forms of birth control are provided including information on each forms effectiveness to prevent pregnancy, how the form of birth control works, the benefits and disadvantages, and how to use the form of birth control.


Safer Sex Menu
This menu provides information to individuals on choices of sexual activity and the level of risk associated with each activity. This menu provides information on the level of risk associated with each sexual activity and whether it is no risk, no real risk, low risk, and high risk of the transmission of HIV.

 

The Facts of Life…and More
The Facts of Life… and More is a publication by Leslie Walker-Hirsch. This book helps guide professionals on how to educate individuals with intellectual disabilities about sexuality in a culturally competent and individualized manner. The Facts of Life…And More also provides insight to the reader on parents’ perspectives on sexuality and information on how professionals can help guide parents on how to discuss sexuality with their child.

Break the Cycle
This website provides information on teen dating violence and includes information on the warning signs of dating violence, legal protections, dating violence research, and the Teen Power & Control Wheel.


Safe Place
Safe Place is an organization based in Austin, Texas that serves survivors of child abuse and neglect, sexual assault, exploitation, and domestic violence. Safe Place offers disability specific fact sheets and has adapted a power and control wheel for people with disabilities in partner relationships and a respect wheel.

Genderbread
The Genderbread Person provides a visual to help explain the differences between gender identity, gender expression, biological sex, and sexual and romantic attractions.


Sexual Orientation and Gender
This resource provides definitions on biological sex, gender, gender identity, and sexual orientation.


The Asexual Visibility and Education Network
Information, resources, and online community for individuals who do not experience sexual attraction. Fact sheets are available for family and friends.


Queerability
Queerability is an LGBTQ and disability rights organization that provides information on LGBTQ and disability issues.

Professional Resources

Atkinson, J., & Ward, K. (2012). The development of an assessment of interpersonal violence for individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Sexuality and Disability, 30, 301-309.


Ward, K., Atkinson, J., Smith, C., & Windsor, R. (2013). A F​riendships and D​ating Program for adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities: A formative evaluation. Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities, 51(1), 22-32.


Ward, K., Windsor, R., & Atkinson, J. P. (2012). A process evaluation of the F​riendships and Dating Program for adults with developmental disabilities: Measuring the fidelity of program delivery. Research in Developmental Disabilities, 33, 69-75.


Ward, K. M., Bosek, R. L., & Trimble, E. L. (2010). Romantic relationships and interpersonal violence among adults with developmental disabilities. Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities, 48(2), 89-98.

Diverse City Press is a small publishing company that supports the rights of individuals with disabilities. DVDs are available for purchase that highlight different areas including masturbation, preventing victimization, how to increase the self-esteem of persons with developmental disabilities, establishing and maintaining appropriate boundaries, and a teaching guide about condom use.
 
This webinar hosted by the Association of University Centers on Disability (AUCD) Sexual Health Special Interest Group (SIG) addresses rights related to sexuality and provides best-practice strategies on how to advance sexual self-advocacy and empowerment among individuals with disabilities. View a copy of the webinar presentation.
 
The Birds and the Bees is a free curriculum developed for educators working with young adults with disabilities. The curriculum is free to use and adapt. Lessons include anatomy and reproduction, crushes, dating, power in relationships, sexual health, and gender roles. 
 
The Facts of Life… and More is a publication by Leslie Walker-Hirsch. This book helps guide professionals on how to educate individuals with intellectual disabilities about sexuality in a culturally competent and individualized manner. The Facts of Life…And More also provides insight to the reader on parents’ perspectives on sexuality and information on how professionals can help guide parents on how to discuss sexuality with their child.
 
This resource guide was created by the Massachusetts Department of Public Health and the Massachusetts Department of Developmental Services. Adolescents with disabilities and their families and providers helped to create this guide. Topics included in the guide are: puberty and human development, puberty and human development and Autism Spectrum Disorder, social skills and relationship development, sexual orientation and identity, and sexual health and human rights.
 
This guide, created by the Wyoming Department of Family Services, provides individuals with information on the signs and symptoms of abuse, neglect, or exploitation, how individuals can make a report, and contact information for police departments, Sheriff’s, and Department of Family Services offices throughout the state of Wyoming, and community and state resources.
 
The National Disability Rights Network publication Devaluing People with Disabilities: Medical Procedures that Violate Civil Rights provides a discussion on the importance of individual rights in regards to medical treatment, including reproductive and sexual health, and addresses civil rights related issues surrounding the “Ashley treatment”.
 
This office housed within the Department of Health and Human Services provides resources for adolescent health topics such as reproductive health, mental health, healthy relationships and more.
 
The Autism Self Advocacy Network has created a RealTalk Provider Toolkit. This toolkit has information on how providers can be more supportive of the sexuality of individuals with disabilities. RealTalk provides a space for young people with disabilities to discuss sexuality and relationships. RealTalk has also hosted a webinar and slides to this webinar can be found here. Follow RealTalk on Facebook here.
 
This menu provides information to individuals on choices of sexual activity and the level of risk associated with each activity. This menu provides information on the level of risk associated with each sexual activity and whether it is no risk, no real risk, low risk, and high risk of the transmission of HIV.
 
For parents and educators, this website provides lesson plans for the following topics: human development, relationships, personal skills, sexual behavior, sexual health, society and culture, and other resources.
 
A resource for educators, administrators, and advocates, the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States educates, advocates, and informs a wide variety of groups and individuals including schools, policymakers, communities, healthcare providers, and parents.
 
This book provides the reader with information on best practices for teaching individuals with Autism Spectrum Disorders. The book is then divided into sex education topics and covers issues such as of gender, public vs private, puberty, hygiene, emotions, and sex.

The Sexuality & Disability Consortium at the Institute on Disability & Human Development offers information and resources related to sexuality and individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Find videos on sexual self-advocacy and fact sheets on their resource page.
 
Sproutflix has a large assortment of films featuring individuals with disabilities. Sprotuflix offers streams, downloads, DVDs, and playlists that can be purchased. There are several short clips highlighting relationships and romance.

This document provides a comparison of different sexuality education curriculums. The following programs are described: Friendships & Dating Program, PEERS, STARS, FLASH, Social Signals, ESCAPE-NOW, Social and Life Skills, and Family Life and Relationships, and Sexuality and Developmental Disabilities Workshops.